Six years strong….

It’s my view that in a relationship the male and female should both put forth the same amount of effort and energy into making sense of the relationship.  Now I’m not saying that a relationship should be hard to work at because when two people mesh well together relating to each other shouldn’t be a problem.  However, when the hustle and bustle of everyday life enter the picture, then yes you need to “work” at it.  It should stay to reason that you reap what you sow, you get what you put in. 

My husband and I are great friends, we get along well and enjoy the same pass times.  Sometimes, as any couple will tell you, we argue and we’ve had some doozies.  Lately we’ve changed the way we argue, we slowed down on the screaming and insults.  Now we just stop talking for a few minutes till we gather our thoughts and figure out how to say what we mean without being mean!  It’s amazing how we’ve grown as a couple!!!

This is us six years ago….and still going strong!!!